Sympathy Words Phrases How Do You Cheer Up A Friend?

How do you cheer up a friend? - sympathy words phrases

When one of my friends is sad, I feel at a loss as they encourage. I feel your pain and want desperately to encourage her, but I do not know what to say except that I think the repetition of meaningless phrases like "Oh ... Okay ..." and "do not worry. .. "I doubt that these sentences, accompanied by a sympathetic tone, which really comfortable ... because I was so sad, and confirms my friends m "in this way, I do not feel understood. What should I do in this situation, how can I become a better friend?: (I would appreciate any words from someone who has wisdom for me. Thanks